Chronological Bible Study – May 15

What I Noticed Today (2 Samuel 13-15)

2 Samuel 13 & 14 reveal dysfunction in David’s family.

2 Samuel 13

Ammon raped his sister, Tamar,

In verses 1-20, David’s son Amnon (mother Ahinoam) lusted for his half-sister Tamar (mother, Maacah).

• Amnon schemed to get Tamar into his room, and despite her protestations, he raped her. When he was done, he threw her out of his room and sent her away in shame.
• Tamar left tore her clothes put ashes on her head, and went away crying out (the usual signs of mourning).
• Tamar’s brother, Absalom, learned what had happened to Tamar and told her to do nothing. Tamar came and lived in his house as a desolate woman.

In verses 21-39, Absalom murdered Amnon:

• David was mad when he heard what happened, but did nothing.
• After waiting two years, Tamar’s brother Absalom schemed to get Amnon away from Jerusalem and ordered servants to kill Amnon.
• Fearing his father, Absalom fled to Geshur to stay with Talmai, his maternal grandfather (2 Samuel 3:3). He stayed there for three years.
• After these three years, David longed to reunite with Absalom because he had finished grieving for Amnon.

2 Samuel 14

David is reunited with Absalom.

In verses 1-12, Joab schemed to reunite Absalom with David by having a wise woman pretend to see David on another matter.

• Joab told the woman exactly what to say, and she went to see David.
• The woman told David a story about being a widow with two sons. The two sons argued in the field, and one killed the other as they were fighting.
• David agreed to issue an order to save the woman’s son from the avenger of blood.

In verses 12-33,

• The woman then brought up the issue of the exile of Absalom.
• David confronted the woman asking if she had been put up to appearing before him by Joab. She admitted that Joab had ordered her to tell this story to the king.
• David relented and ordered Joab to allow Absalom to return to Jerusalem, but David to see him until Joab once again interceded on Absalom’s behalf.

Some thoughts for additional consideration:

• There is a lot of scheming and deception going on here, not to mention David doesn’t hold his own family members accountable for their actions. David doesn’t deal with Amnon; he doesn’t seem to do anything for his daughter, who was raped, and he doesn’t do anything when Absalom takes revenge on his sister by having Amnon killed.
• Additionally, David allowed Absalom to return to Jerusalem, with no indication that he had repented of the murder of his half-brother, Amnon.
• I sometimes suspect it is easier to make hard decisions for others than it is when it involves your own family. It’s easier to proclaim judgment when the judgment doesn’t involve your own flesh and blood! God calls us to be leaders in our families, even when it is hard!

2 Samuel 15

Absalom rebels.

In verses 1-6, David’s son, Absalom, began his quest for power.

• He began to gather followers and even sat at the city gate, intercepting people with grievances suggesting their claims were legitimate, but the king had no one to hear them, but if he were made a judge, he would listen to them.

In verses 7-12, Absalom deceived David, making an excuse to go to Hebron to fulfill a vow.

• Absalom gathered his band of followers in Hebron. Two hundred other men followed along, unaware of Absalom’s intentions. Absalom began offering sacrifices and sent for David’s advisor Ahithophel.

In verses 13-23, an informer came and told David what Absalom was doing in Hebron.

• When David heard of this, he gathered up his servants and fled from Jerusalem in fear of Absalom.
• Six hundred men came with David as they marched out of the city including Ittai the Gittite (from Gath in Philistia) who swore allegiance to David.

In verses 24-29, Zadok and Abiathar, Levite priests were carrying the Ark of God out of the city.

• David told them to return with their families and take the Ark back to Jerusalem.
• David also told them he would wait in the wilderness until he got word from them that it was safe to return.

In verses 30—37, David traveled to the Mount of Olives.

• David was told that his advisor, Ahithophel, had joined up with Absalom.
• David prayed the Lord would turn the counsel of Ahithophel to foolishness.
• David created a small network of spies to keep track of Absalom. One of the spies, Hushai, arrived back in Jerusalem just as Absalom arrived. Hushai’s task was to counteract the advice of Ahithophel, who had already aligned himself with Absalom.

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Tomorrow: Day 136 Psalms 26, 40, 58, 61-62, 64